You can have friendships that go on for years,
You can share your feelings openly with them,
But the moment they turn it against you,
Or you find that you’re constantly explaining yourself to them,
That’s a definite sign that you need to step back.
©ZeinaA.G
I agree so much with this. Friendships can become so complicated even after being friends for many years. Its hard sometimes!
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Yea I know it’s complicated. It’s one of the reasons why it’s hard for me to put it in writing. Sometimes it happens due to a misunderstanding and then they realize it was wrong.
But when they have a record set aside and they’re waiting to pounce at you when you’re weak. That’s when it should definitely end..
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I agree!
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Glad it made sense 😀
Despite everything I know people are different & it doesn’t always have to be this way.
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So true. Thanks for sharing.
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Thanks for reading and commenting! Glad you could relate to this 😀
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Very true lovely, when friendship becomes a job then it’s time to evaluate it. If they are becoming convenient friends or fair weather friends, they belong behind you because you’re to good for them to be on the side of you. Friends are happy when you are and light your path with you, not ask you to hold the candle while they get through. Like the weather, people change but good ones stay the same.❤️
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So true♥♥
Friendship is never a job or someone taking advantage of the other. Or even someone waiting to accuse the other of taking advantage of them…
It’s about open communication from both sides, nothing should feel forced from the first place. When someone helps you through a hard time I’m sure you’d be there too holding the candle for them too when they need it.
I’m so grateful for the lessons. When true friendship is involved, there’s no need to keep explaining yourself to them or to prove anything. They know you’d be there for them in a heartbeat. ♥♥
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So true lovely, friendship isn’t a quid pro quo, it’s a you should know. Everything you said is spot on.❤️❤️
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I always enjoy reading your point of view. ♥
Thanks for taking the time to read my posts.
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❤️❤️. Thank you for your wonderful post lovely.🌹
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Very well said!!
Don’t forget to Glee and spread Sparkles ✨
-Nani 💖
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Thank you ♥
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